写代码用Java的socket通信实现多人多线程聊天室，客户端采用图形界面并有加入聊天室和退出聊天室的选项

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首先需要了解一下Java的Socket通信，Socket是一种网络通信协议，它是一种应用层协议，用于实现进程间的通信和网络间的通信。

在Java中，可以通过java.net包中的Socket类和ServerSocket类来实现Socket通信。

为了实现多人多线程聊天室，我们需要采用ServerSocket类来实现服务器端，客户端可以采用Socket类来实现。

以下是大致的代码实现：

服务端：

import java.io.*;
import java.net.*;
import java.util.*;

public class Server {
    private ServerSocket server;
    private ArrayList<Socket> clients;

    public Server(int port) {
        clients = new ArrayList<>();
        try {
            server = new ServerSocket(port);
            System.out.println("Server started.");
        } catch (IOException e) {
            System.out.println("Failed to start server.");
            e.printStackTrace();
            System.exit(-1);
        }
    }

    public void start() {
        while (true) {
            try {
                Socket client = server.accept();
                clients.add(client);
                ClientHandler handler = new ClientHandler(client, clients);
                new Thread(handler).start();
                System.out.println("New client connected.");
            } catch (IOException e) {
                System.out.println("Client connection error.");
                e.printStackTrace();
            }
        }
    }

    public static void main(String[] args) {
        Server server = new Server(8888);
        server.start();
    }
}

class ClientHandler implements Runnable {
    private Socket client;
    private ArrayList<Socket> clients;
    private BufferedReader in;
    private PrintWriter out;

    public ClientHandler(Socket client, ArrayList<Socket> clients) {
        this.client = client;
        this.clients = clients;
        try {
            in = new BufferedReader(new InputStreamReader(client.getInputStream()));
            out = new PrintWriter(client.getOutputStream(), true);
        } catch (IOException e) {
            System.out.println("Failed to create input/output stream.");
            e.printStackTrace();
        }
    }

    @Override
    public void run() {
        try {
            String name = in.readLine();
            System.out.println("New client " + name + " connected.");
            out.println("Welcome " + name + " to the chat room.");
            for (Socket c : clients) {
                if (!c.equals(client)) {
                    PrintWriter p = new PrintWriter(c.getOutputStream(), true);
                    p.println(name + " has joined the chat room.");
                }
            }
            String line;
            while ((line = in.readLine()) != null) {
                System.out.println(name + ": " + line);
                for (Socket c : clients) {
                    if (!c.equals(client)) {
                        PrintWriter p = new PrintWriter(c.getOutputStream(), true);
                        p.println(name + ": " + line);
                    }
                }
            }
            clients.remove(client);
            for (Socket c : clients) {
                PrintWriter p = new PrintWriter(c.getOutputStream(), true);
                p.println(name + " has left the chat room.");
            }
            client.close();
            System.out.println("Client " + name + " disconnected.");
        } catch (IOException e) {
            System.out.println("Failed to communicate with the client.");
            e.printStackTrace();
        }
    }
}

客户端：

import javax.swing.*;
import java.awt.*;
import java.awt.event.*;
import java.io.*;
import java.net.*;
import java.util.*;

public class Client extends JFrame {
    private Socket socket;
    private BufferedReader in;
    private PrintWriter out;
    private JTextArea messageArea;
    private JTextField messageField;
    private JButton sendButton;
    private JButton joinButton;
    private JButton exitButton;
    private boolean connected;

    public Client() {
        super("Chat Room");
        connected = false;
        messageArea = new JTextArea();
        messageArea.setEditable(false);
        JScrollPane scrollPane = new JScrollPane(messageArea);
        messageField = new JTextField();
        sendButton = new JButton("Send");
        sendButton.addActionListener(new ActionListener() {
            @Override
            public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent e) {
                sendMessage();
            }
        });
        joinButton = new JButton("Join");
        joinButton.addActionListener(new ActionListener() {
            @Override
            public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent e) {
                joinChatRoom();
            }
        });
        exitButton = new JButton("Exit");
        exitButton.addActionListener(new ActionListener() {
            @Override
            public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent e) {
                exitChatRoom();
            }
        });
        JPanel buttonPanel = new JPanel();
        buttonPanel.setLayout(new GridLayout(1, 3));
        buttonPanel.add(joinButton);
        buttonPanel.add(exitButton);
        buttonPanel.add(sendButton);
        JPanel messagePanel = new JPanel();
        messagePanel.setLayout(new BorderLayout());
        messagePanel.add(scrollPane, BorderLayout.CENTER);
        messagePanel.add(messageField, BorderLayout.SOUTH);
        messagePanel.add(buttonPanel, BorderLayout.NORTH);
        setContentPane(messagePanel);
        setDefaultCloseOperation(JFrame.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);
        setSize(500, 300);
        setVisible(true);
    }

    private void sendMessage() {
        if (connected) {
            String message = messageField.getText();
            if (!message.equals("")) {
                out.println(message);
                messageField.setText("");
            }
        }
    }

    private void joinChatRoom() {
        if (!connected) {
            String name = JOptionPane.showInputDialog(this, "Please enter your name:");
            if (name != null && !name.equals("")) {
                try {
                    socket = new Socket("localhost", 8888);
                    in = new BufferedReader(new InputStreamReader(socket.getInputStream()));
                    out = new PrintWriter(socket.getOutputStream(), true);
                    out.println(name);
                    messageArea.append(in.readLine() + "\n");
                    connected = true;
                    joinButton.setEnabled(false);
                    exitButton.setEnabled(true);
                    sendButton.setEnabled(true);
                    Thread listener = new Thread(new MessageListener());
                    listener.start();
                } catch (IOException e) {
                    JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(this, "Failed to connect to the server.");
                    e.printStackTrace();
                }
            }
        }
    }

    private void exitChatRoom() {
        if (connected) {
            out.println("exit");
            connected = false;
            joinButton.setEnabled(true);
            exitButton.setEnabled(false);
            sendButton.setEnabled(false);
            try {
                socket.close();
            } catch (IOException e) {
                JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(this, "Failed to close the socket.");
                e.printStackTrace();
            }
        }
    }

    class MessageListener implements Runnable {
        @Override
        public void run() {
            try {
                String line;
                while ((line = in.readLine()) != null) {
                    messageArea.append(line + "\n");
                }
            } catch (IOException e) {
                JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(Client.this, "Failed to receive message from the server.");
                e.printStackTrace();
            }
        }
    }

    public static void main(String[] args) {
        Client client = new Client();
    }
}

以上就是基于Java的Socket通信实现多人多线程聊天室的大致代码，客户端采用图形界面并有加入聊天室和退出聊天室的选项。